Enter the Crone: My 2012 dental apocalypse

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The Mayan Long Count calendar ends on December 21st, 2012, and skittish types fear a volcano-spew apocalypse accompanied by ear-splitting tectonic plate shifts and a Godzilla tsunami.

I’m unfazed. My 2012 cataclysm is here already.

Dental End Of Days meets Crone

To lose one tooth may be regarded as a misfortune; to lose nine looks like carelessness.

 – with apologies to Oscar Wilde

There are three layers to my recent dental End of Days – one archetypal, one psychological and one farcical.

Archetypally speaking, I morphed from Mother to Crone in the space of 35 minutes – this being the time the surgeon spent wresting nine teeth from my skull to leave me looking like Medusa’s harpy. I reached this conclusion after running the following scientific equation: Few teeth + grey hair = crone

Symbolically, the Crone represents a woman’s third stage of  life when her childbearing years are over and she can spend her time getting wise and compassionate. She acts as a mentor and teacher and, traditionally, was widely respected by her society.  Crones are meant to get creative, look within and prepare for death.

All good, except for the last bit.

In addition to my sudden crone transmogrification – and right up to the hour before my procedure – I indulged  in a psychological state Dr Freud knew well.

Denial is a coping tool that works until it doesn’t. Ultimately, it only served to make me look even more stupid than usual.

Here’s how:

Day Surgery Nurse: Could you please confirm how many teeth you’re having extracted?

Me: Seven

Day Surgery Nurse (looking skeptical): It says here you’re having nine out.

Me:  Oh

Nurse: I’ll check with Mr B. (my surgeon)

Surgeon appears a short time later.

Mr B:  Claire, we discussed this several months ago. You’re having nine teeth extracted, not seven.  Plus a few wisdom teeth.

Me: Oh.

Conclusion: Denial is feckless. Face reality.

I have left the most embarrassing bit for last. It even has a motto.

Mr W, my congenial anesthetist, makes cheerful conversation as I’m wheeled into the operating theatre. No doubt, he is trying to keep me chirpy and I gibber and laugh a little too loudly. I am transferred to the operating table and a nurse hovers over me with an oxygen mask. I want to run away. Fast.

Chirpy Anesthetist (CA): What would you normally be doing on a Monday afternoon?

Me: Writing.

CA: Great. Who do you write for?

Me: My sister and I have a blog.

CA: Interesting.

Me I’m writing a post about Burnie. It’s  a strange place with weird people.

Less Chirpy Anesthetist (LCA):  Mmmm. My wife’s from there.

Me:  Oh.

I try to backtrack but my voice is squeaky with servile, incomprehensible platitudes. In any case, it’s too late. I have offended the man who will be monitoring my life signs for the next 35 minutes and there is nothing I can do about it.

The mask descends.

LCA:  Claire, you’re just going to have a nice, relaxing sleep.

Me:  Unconsciousness.

Motto: Never, ever upset your anesthetist.

Crone Resignation

Alas, my elevation to wise crone is premature  as I must return to have dental implants in four months and they look and function like normal teeth. Modified scientific equation: new teeth + grey hair = NQC (Not Quite Crone).

My implants will be inserted by aforementioned surgeon and my life signs monitored by his loyal sidekick.  Yes, you guessed it, Chirpy Anesthetist.

Maybe he’ll be divorced by then.

Claire Bell

Claire Bell is the health and wellbeing editor of Midlifexpress. She is the author of Stone Age Secrets for Mind and Body and Comma Magic. Print and ebooks available on Amazon.

3 thoughts on “Enter the Crone: My 2012 dental apocalypse

  • December 2, 2012 at 7:09 am

    Lol! PLUS a few wisdom teeth? You mean, IN ADDITION to the nine? Apocalyptic indeed. And how fortunate that your anaesthetist was not the one extracting the teeth… 😉

  • December 3, 2012 at 12:41 pm

    It seems unseemly to laugh at your misfortune, but I can’t help myself – very funny!

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